Since the opening of the second child policy, many families around the mother have a second child, these mothers often sigh: are the same mother raised, the second treasure than the big treasure too smart!
Sister looks more indifferent, do not like to talk, see people are not willing to say hello; sister is cheerful and outgoing, see everyone laugh, but also good at coquettish, very likable.
At one point, Lili felt her throat uncomfortable and couldn't help coughing when she ate. When she found out, she took the initiative to put her arms around her mother and said,\" Mother is ill.
Sister's words are warm in Lili's heart, but sister seems to care nothing, as usual to eat, later Lili coughed more, sister said: cough into such a, not to take medicine? Don't see a doctor, huh!
Sister is not the same, although the tone is stiff, but she has been in mind, will remind her mother before school:\" remember to go to the hospital!\" After school he asked,\" Did you go? Did you buy any medicine?
Although Lili can feel the love of the eldest daughter, but always cannot help but think: if only sister can show a little enthusiasm, just like sister, after going to society is not easy to suffer ah.
In many families, Erbao always looks more lively and shrewd. Does this mean Erbao is smarter? The difference between the two children, is there a problem with parents'education?
Researchers in the u.s. looked at families with tens of thousands of babies and found that the first child had a higher iq, an average of three percentage points higher than his younger brother and sister, but his younger sister was more challenging and struggling, and was more sociable.
In the birth of the first child, mothers must be careful, referring to all previous experience, eating and drinking have strict standard regulations, afraid of the child to be damaged,
In fact,\" according to the book \"and\" according to the pig \", as long as there is love, there is no problem, just because the mother after the experience, no anxiety and tension, become calm, easy.
However, in this case, Erbao want to get the attention of parents, may create a bit of intentionally or unintentionally, acting a little different, to attract the attention of parents.
In such a situation, Dabao will try to capture the attention of the family, so Dabao will have a relatively high motivation to achieve, want to do a good job, but they are also more control desire, have power desire.